This dilemma I'm sure seems a little crazy to some people, I have to admit though I have been a victim of this scenario myself. I said on the air that I suspect that in some ways women trust their intuition so much that they may actually wonder if their dreams are trying to tell them something they don't want to look at in waking life.
My high school basketball coach always said "cheaters never win, and winners never cheat". He was right. Just ask former Senator and Presidential candidate John Edwards.