relationships

Sarah in Jonesville writes: Hey guys , love the show.  I'm 23 and have been dating a guy a few years older than me for about 4 months.  He's a great guy and treats me amazing.  My main dilemma is that he is a captain in the Air Force. I currently a...

Reggie in Westerlo writes: I couldn't wait for my girlfriend to move in with me, and she finally did 3 months ago.  Knowing what I know now, I wish I could go back in time and at the very least, lay down a few ground rules.  While she means well, she's constantly nagging me about cleanliness, where things go, how much food is left in fridge etc.  It's we... Read More ...

Gwen in Coeymans writes: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. The first 8 months or so we hardly argued, but that has changed in the last few months. Now that the "honeymoon phase" is over, we're both learning things about each other that are less than ideal. When I argue, I tend to dig a little deep and can say some mean things and I'm working on it. I also like to res

Reilley in Niskayuna writes: I'm not the type of woman who asks for things or wants things but I do want to get your thoughts on something.  I've been married for 13 years and I would say that in that time, my husband has not bought me a "just because" gift in a decade at least.  Birthdays and anniversaries he usually comes through but once- just once - I'd like him to come home with som

Jess in Northville writes: I grew up on farm and my family has always eaten really good, fresh, locally grown food. Now that I'm an adult, I appreciate and actually rely on fresh fruits and vegetables.   It bothers me, perhaps a little more than it should, that my boyfriend Scott won't eat vegetables, like ever!  He's 31 but trying to get him to even try a carrot is like dealing with a stubborn 7-

Curtis in Albany writes: My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months and were having a conversation over a few drinks a couple few weeks ago that started off pretty well but it didn't end that way. We were discussing our experiences with travel and food and then it turned into discussions about our exes.  I gave up a little bit, but no too much- and she did much of the same until she c

Karissa in Salem writes: My husband and I have been married for 9 years and like most couples we've had our share of ups and downs but we always seem to find some ground and figure things out.  Lately though, our relationship has been especially strenuous. To be honest, this one was all on me. I screwed up and acted in a way that caused him to question how 'faithful' I was.  I've offered to go to

Rachel in Glens Falls writes: I think one of the newer coworkers in my office is into me but I'm not sure.   He's really taken an interest in my life asking me some pretty personal questions about my views on religion, marriage and kids.  That aside, we've also bonded on some of life's lighter things like favorite comedians, TV shows, netflix specials and things like that.  Every day I look forwar

Reggie in Troy writes: I recently found out that my girlfriend has been cheating on me with her personal trainer.  I was devastated - I actually drove to the gym and saw them in the parking lot on a day that I normally don't go.   Naturally, I want to go after the guy but I realized that she's the one that ultimately made the choice.  She apologized and begged me to give her a second chance but I

Casey in Amsterdam writes: My boyfriend and I (Both in our mid-twenties) have been dating for almost 3 years and things are good - we spend a ton of time together but the only thing that's really a nuisance, is that we need to travel 45 mins see each other. I live alone, he lives in Troy with a roommate.  I have a large place that is plenty big for the 2 of us, and for the last year or so, I've be

Willa in Greenville writes: "My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and we bought our first home last February. Normally we have Thanksgiving dinner at his mom's house but she said that this year she doesn't feel comfortable hosting...so his mom and dad are staying home.  My husband is insistent about having us host this year. It would be like 8 other people.  Here's the problem- it'

Danielle in Speigletown writes: My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly 9 years. We're both in our late 20's.  We've lived together for 7, and while we don't have any kids, we do have two dogs.  We basically are a married couple - he even refers to me as  "wifey" but when I ask him about marriage, he kind of just changes the subject.  What's the deal here? We're approaching 10 y