My Husband Is Smoking And Lying To Me About It – Daily Dilemma
Here is Today’s Daily Dilemma:
After being a smoker for most of his life (about a pack a day), my Husband quit smoking about a year ago. I was thrilled. He is a bit older than me and to be honest, I worry about him being there when we get older. I told him how important this was to me and we talked about how much healthier he would be and how much money we would be saving.
Well, I have recently found out that he has been smoking behind my back at work. I have confronted him about it and he lies to me! I am now even more upset that he can lie straight to my face like that than his relapse.
We are friends with the guys he works with and they are the ones who are giving him cigarettes and/or smoking with him. It bothers me that they know my Husband is lying to me and even partake in the lie with him. I feel like I look like a fool.
I don’t want to be a “nagging” wife, but I just don’t want to be with a smoker and I’m very upset about his lying. What should I do?
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