Here is Today's Daily Dilemma:

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Every year since I was a kid, my Grandma has sent me a check for $20 on my birthday.

I just turned 35, and she's STILL doing it. Like clockwork, her $20 check came in the mail on my birthday.

I'm a working professional and I make a really good living, so I feel weird accepting these checks from my Grandma.

I'm not complaining I just feel guilty, I know she is not rich and that $20 probably means a lot to her.

Last year I just didn't cash it and I got a letter from her asking why. She was upset and actually thought it wasn't enough for me to bother cashing.

I'm sure a lot of people will say , just give it, or more back to her on her birthday, I have tried this too and she will then give me an earful about how she doesn't need charity.

Yes she is frustrating and very independent. This is why I love her so much.

So, should I keep cashing the checks?

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