Here is Today's Daily Dilemma:

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In a nutshell, My husband is very close to his Mom. I also love her very much and she is a wonderful Grandmother to our 2 kids.

She lives in another state with his Dad and we try to see them as much as possible, but I'm sure she would love to see her Grand kids more often.

That said, We recently were planning a much needed vacation for us and the kids, when he mentioned it to his Mom, she immediately invited herself. My husband told her that would be great, without even mentioning it to me let alone asking how I felt about it.

Trust me, I love his Mom and to be honest it would mean there would be someone to watch the kids if my husband and I wanted to go out one night or two. I just really wanted this time together for the 4 of us. I really feel like we need some time alone as a family and was looking forward to that.

I'm pretty upset but I feel like there is nothing I can do about it now, we can't dis-invite her can we? I just feel like no matter what now, my vacation is ruined.

Any advice?

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