My Husband Has Been Visiting “Adult” Websites, Am I Doing Something Wrong? – Daily Dilemma

The "Daily Dilemma" on the Sean and Richie Show is featured every weekday morning at 6:40am. We and the listeners take on someone's problems and try to offer different perspectives. Now, these don't have to be huge problems- it could just be something bothering you or a friend, or it could be some little thing you and another just can't agree on. If you have a dilemma to share we'd love to hear it just e-mail us here at the show.

Here is today's Daily Dilemma:

This is kind of embarrassing and I don't even know if it's something you can do on the radio but I need advice so here it goes. I have been married for 9 years, I am not the kind of wife to let myself go or even make my husband jump through hoops to get sex. As a matter of fact I think we have always had a pretty good love life. But recently it’s died down a little and after a little investigating I discovered he has visited a few porn sites on his computer. We’re both in our 30’s and in good health so why in the world would  he be more into his computer than  me???

I asked him about it and he actually said he watches for the stories but I mean really? That’s like the old joke of reading Playboy for the articles. I am a little worried that he is not as attracted to me anymore. I know a lot of guys like to watch porn but is he using this stuff because I don't excite him anymore? Or is this normal?