My Friend Is Mean To Her Husband In Public, Should I Tell Her It’s Wrong? – Daily Dilemma
Here is Today’s Daily Dilemma:
My husband and I have a group of friends that all hang out together, mostly comprised of couples. My dilemma is that one of my girlfriends does something that absolutely drives me crazy. At least 3 or 4 times a night if we are all together she will say something belittling her husband. I don’t want to get specific but she will say things, and treat him in a way that makes him look severely “whipped” in front of my husband and the other guys. I think maybe she thinks she is being funny, but really it just makes everyone else uncomfortable. A Lot of the times it’s followed by an awkward silence.
Now, while my husband says that making a guy look bad in front of his male friends is one of the worst things a wife can do, he also thinks I should not say anything to her. He thinks getting involved in another couples dynamic is just never a smart move, and for all we know it doesn’t bother him at all.
I keep feeling like i need to say something to her about it, if not for her husband’s sake, because it makes me uncomfortable every time we all hang out. Should I bring it up to her or stay out of it? If I do say something how should I approach it?
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