Should I Take My Ex Back? – Daily Dilemma [POLL]
The “Daily Dilemma” on the Sean and Richie Show is featured every weekday morning at 6:40am. We and the listeners take on someone’s problems and try to offer different perspectives. Now, these don’t have to be huge problems- it could just be something bothering you or a friend, or it could be some little thing you and another just can’t agree on. If you have a dilemma to share we’d love to hear it just e-mail us here at the show.
Here is today’s daily dilemma:
My girlfriend of 4 years and I broke up about a year ago. We both said we didn’t want to get married or have kids. We were both career oriented people so that seemed the best path for us. The last year of our relationship, she lost her job. She was able to find odd jobs here and there, but nothing that gained her passion like her old job. She came to me soon after that and decided that she wanted to get married and have kids. I think it came from a place of desperation from the loss of her career. I thought it best that we split up, since we now had different feelings about the future. Now, about a year or so later..she wants to get back together. She says truly felt lost and not needed when she lost her job, but now knows for sure that me, without kids and a marriage certificate, is what she wants.
I feel like I am setting myself up for disappointment if I go back to her. She has a new job that she loves. I love her very much and WANT to go back, but will she do it again? I know no one can tell the future, but am I am wrong to take her back and give her another shot?