Should I Consider Having A Baby? – Daily Dilemma
The "Daily Dilemma" on the Sean and Richie Show is featured every weekday morning at 6:40am. We and the listeners take on someone's problems and try to offer different perspectives. Now, these don't have to be huge problems- it could just be something bothering you or a friend, or it could be some little thing you and another just can't agree on. If you have a dilemma to share we'd love to hear it just e-mail us here at the show.
Here is today's dilemma:
I do not know if I can explain this without sounding selfish but I was wondering if having a baby will make me stay and be satisfied with marriage I have or try to work harder on it to make it work.
If I give all my love to a baby and he/she becomes center of my world, would that make me feel that any problem in my marriage is nothing that can't be fixed?
I am 30 years old and I feel I am ready to be a mom. My husband wants a child as well and I am sure he will be a good dad, but my problem is that I do not know what I feel towards him.
We fight every day over stupid, little things.
I know many women who stay in their marriage and do not love or are not in love with their husband but seem happy because of their kids. They said that kids complete them. So it made me wonder if love for a child is so powerful that it makes you forget how your marriage is. If being there for your baby won't make you feel alone anymore?
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