Here is the daily dilemma for Tuesday, January 17th, 2012:

"Hi guys.  Hope you're doing well with this lousy weather. Unfortunately, Im not. This is a continuing argument between my former husband and me. I'm a full-time nurse, working overnights at a local hospital.   He's on second shift of his job. We have an arrangement set up with the kids...and especially in times like today, each side has to step up. Well, he refuses to take them -- says he is too exhausted.  Yeah?  Let ME tell YOU about exhausted.  This constant hassle with him exhausts me even further.  What's the best way to handle this civilly?"

What do you think?  Does the person with custody of the children have the burden here or should it be split equally?

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